There are no problems out there! What is out there is what happened. What is so! Or as I said in some earlier post, what is, is! What makes it a problem is that we say "IT SHOULDN'T BE!"...
Instead of fretting and worrying about the so called problems, to achieve your goals, avoid the stories in your life. Here's is a dummy's guide to problem solving:
1) Accept what happened - what happened is what the camera caught! Be authentic, acknowledge what happened.
2) Take ownership. You are the creator of your stories, just like you are the creator of your visions and dreams. It's all in the head, in you.
3) Get in touch with your interpretations, your stories.
4) Alter your interpretations - use stories that empower you, make you feel good! Can you always be sure? No, you can never be sure. But you have a choice to make, and as long as you own up to your choices, you will be fine.
5) Take action - not reaction!
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